Overcoming ancestral resentment

For those of you who believe of life after death, here is something to ponder about.

Today my daughter and I were discussing about people who through their irresponsible behavior kill other people, for example, drunk drivers, texting while driving, and so forth. I was telling my daughter that I had read about these individuals having a very hard time to live a normal life and some of them end up killing themselves because they cannot handle the burden of their guilt.

I asked my daughter what she thought would be the fastest way to overcome the resentment that the victims surely have. In addition, their families on earth and their ancestors in the spiritual world also must carry a tremendous resentment towards these individuals.

She suggested that perhaps they should die in a similar fashion than their victims. My answer to her was that even though their death in this fashion may remove some resentment, it would not solve the problem because now the ancestors of this individual may resent that death and start their own campaign of demanding restitution through yet another individual on earth who unwillingly committed that new crime. So, what should be the best solution?

Through my own understanding of the spiritual world , I believe that the best way to overcome once and for all the resentment created and liberate all these spirits that they may pursue their spiritual growth is for these individuals to actually live on earth as long as possible. They must find a way to live with their guilt and pay the indemnity necessary by living a very service oriented life. They must overcome any idea to justify their action; they must remain very humble, living a very unselfish and repentful life on earth. My understanding is that it is faster and easier to accomplish any kind of restitution while on earth. In the spiritual world, restoration process takes must longer since one will have to find someone on earth to work with.